Self Care & Neutrality

I didn’t realize how long it has been since I have written here. Wow time is flying…. Here’s my rambling for today.

You know that feeling when you need to say no, I can’t but don’t want to disappoint others, be judged or end up feeling guilty? Well the universe gave me that gift this morning, times 3.

Sleep has been elusive this week. Not because I’m worried or thinking. Not because I was in pain. No reason in particular, it is just the way I am sometimes. And Full Moons don’t help. And then today I had 3 invitations, all wonderful invitations!

But what I really needed was to stay home and nurture myself. (Hopefully take a nap!) When I don’t get enough sleep my empathic gifts are much louder, less managed. Everything seems so loud, noises, energy, feelings….. Because the neural pathways are overstimulated, they need time to rest too.

My life long pattern would have been to find a way to say yes to all of them. Those kind of patterns come up, almost every time, they are neurological pathways. But every time I make a different choice I am strengthening the new neural pathway. Making that new choice easier and easier to make. So I said, no thank you 3 times. And all 3 responses where loving!

When we say yes to self care and are brave enough to share that with others, we help empower them to make that same choice. To put self first, to give ourself what we need. Simply because we are worth it. Every single one of us! Just because we are! We are all Sourse Energy. We are all One. And We Are All Worthy Because We are Love!

Let us build our New Earth with a culture that completely understands the value of Self Care!

Part of doing that is also becoming aware of our own judgement of our and others self care. We are all one but we are all completely individual, living completely different lives. So of course our needs are not going to be the same. May we find that place of Neutrality. When we stop judging ourselves, we can stop judging others And when we stop judging others, we can stop judging ourselves. As Within so Without.

I hope for you lots of Self Care, Neutrality and Sleep! Much Love!